Holden and Phoebe

... I don't get them. I mean I feel like Phoebe is the older one. She seems older when they talk. She acts like she gets disappointed in Holden pretty easily. I mean I would too if my brother was continually failing out of school. But I mean I guess I would kind of understand because if our brother, (Allie for Phoebe and Holden) had died and Holden basically became unsteady and started punching windows in the garage out, I mean everything in our lives should change. We shouldn't feel the same way about each other because a lot of events just happened and we saw how each other really reacts to things. I don't know. I always have to but myself in the shoes of the person or people I'm reading about. XD